To remove body hair or to not remove body hair…it’s not a question, rather it’s a decision, and a very personal one at that. But unfortunately, we live in a society where women are expected to be hair free, and are often shamed when they are not. That has been the experience for Monica Hernandez, Alexandra Marzella, and Ayqa Khan.

In this new video from Allure magazine’s Dispelling Beauty Myths series, the three women share their personal stories “in a fight against body hair norms.”